Blog — Holistic Healing

In my last blog post, Dominance Debunked, I discussed how physical force and emotional intimidation can lead to fear—and in some cases, aggression—in dogs. What’s important to understand is that many of these methods, including alpha-style “pack leadership” and even e-collar training, can still produce a dog who appears calm and obedient. But appearance can be misleading. In many cases, what you’re actually seeing is a freeze response. These dogs are what we call fear-compliant. They obey not because they understand or feel confident, but because their nervous system is overwhelmed. They’re operating in a state of fight, flight, or...

If you came across a wild animal eating in the woods, your instinct would probably be to give it space and avoid interfering. Respecting that boundary helps prevent stress or defensive behavior. The same general principle applies to dogs and their food, yet many common training approaches suggest the opposite. Some people are taught to handle, interrupt, or even take food away while a dog is eating in an effort to “desensitize” them or establish control. But consider the experience from the dog’s perspective. If someone regularly hovered over you during meals or took your plate away without warning, it...

When people reach out for help with their dog’s behavior, they often begin by describing how intelligent their dog is. They explain how quickly their dog learns, how observant they are, and how capable they seem in many contexts. And they are usually right. Most dogs with behavioral challenges are not struggling because they lack intelligence or learning ability. In fact, many of them are extremely perceptive and highly responsive to their environment. The issue is not learning—it is emotional capacity. More specifically, the issue is how much stress their nervous system can tolerate while still remaining regulated enough to...

The Energy Equation One of the most important concepts in dog training is simple: Don’t add energy to a behavior that already represents an energy overload. Many common training mistakes come from doing exactly that—adding more stimulation to a dog who is already overstimulated. What Does “Adding Energy” Look Like? 1. Punishment-based correctionsSo-called “positive punishment” (adding a stimulus to stop behavior) may appear to work in the short term, but it often makes things worse over time. Why? Because you’re adding more intensity to an already heightened state. 2. Overstimulating activitiesPuzzle toys, excessive “mental stimulation,” or constant activity can backfire...

"Dogs are very sensitive to body language, so the least little tense movement--a change of gait, a slight hunching of the shoulders--can be observed and interpreted as something being amiss. When we're upset, our voices can go up slightly in frequency as well. Dogs get these nuances in ways most people don't.  Masking strong feelings by acting like things are OK may not always work, either: It's quite likely that dogs can smell fear, anxiety, even sadness... The flight-or-fight hormone, adrenaline, is undetectable by our noses, but dogs can apparently smell it. In addition, fear or anxiety is often accompanied...