Blog — training advice

  All I want for Christmas this year is for everyone (including myself!) to stop romanticizing dogs. Yes, that's right, dogs are not Disney characters. I think we've been weirdly conditioned by movies like "Lady and the Tramp" and "101 Dalmations" to feel that dogs are just like us: They want to live indoors and eat spaghetti, raise their babies among humans, walk through city parks, and enjoy watching TV by the fire as much as we do. Dogs are actually still so closely related to wolves that they can interbreed with them. This, by some opinions, makes them the...

In Trauma and Memory, Peter Levine explains that successfully renegotiating traumatic memories involves safely revisiting the experiences that activate them. When an individual can move through those stress responses and come out the other side, it creates a sense of triumph and mastery—allowing the past to resolve rather than repeat. From there, life can be lived with more vitality, instead of being constrained by autonomic patterns like fight, flight, freeze, or appease. With a reactive dog, we’re aiming to create that same opportunity for renegotiation. This is distinct from simple counter-conditioning. Rather than just pairing triggers with rewards, we thoughtfully...

  Beyond Snuffle Mats: What Dogs Truly Need Sniffing, licking, and chewing are all naturally soothing behaviors for dogs. That’s why tools like scatter feeding, snuffle mats, and long-lasting chews have become staples in enrichment routines. And they absolutely have their place. But there’s a piece of the puzzle that often gets overlooked—something just as important, and for many dogs, even more satisfying: Biting, tugging, kill-shaking, and dissecting. Honoring the Predator Within If we take a step back and look at the predatory sequence, it becomes clear that dogs are not just companions—they are, biologically, predators. A full predatory sequence...

  Mindset matters! Grow your emotional capacity by learning how to deal with stress and making room for feelings! Kajsa explains to us how radical acceptance of stressful situations and the feelings that they produce can bring us closer to a sense of peace and well being. Kajsa is a mindset coach who helps guardians of challenging dogs reduce stress and anxiety in their life. This episode is incredibly useful for those struggling with their feelings about having a reactive dog in their care.    Kajsa's Coaching Website: https://kajsavanoverbeek.com/ Kajsa and Rusty on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theruscattledog Ruff Around the Edges Podcast:...

How your energy, intention, and emotional state affect your dog... Your dog wants to be acknowledged. Not just managed, corrected, or trained—but seen for who they are as an individual. Your dog has their own personality, preferences, sensitivities, and emotional world. They have strengths and weaknesses, things they enjoy and things that overwhelm them. Like any relationship, trust is built when those things are recognized and respected. At the heart of it, your dog wants to feel understood.They want to trust that you see them clearly—and that they’re not expected to suppress everything they feel just to “perform” for you....