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I don’t typically offer rigid “fixes” for behavior, because every dog is an individual—and every moment is unique. What works in one situation may not apply in another. With that in mind, I always encourage you to trust your intuition and respond to your dog in the present moment, regardless of what I—or anyone else—has suggested. That said, here are some general guidelines to help calm a hyperactive or anxious dog: 1. Reduce stimulation indoorsCreate a calm, predictable home environment. Keep greetings neutral—no big excitement when you come and go. You may even experiment with an “attention diet” (no touch,...

Safety First “Safety first” is one of the most commonly used phrases in dog training, but it is often misunderstood. In behavior work, safety is not just about preventing bad things from happening or keeping a dog away from triggers. True safety is about creating the internal and external conditions that allow a dog’s nervous system to learn, adapt, and change. Without safety, there is no learning. There is only survival-based behavior. What Safety Actually Means When we talk about safety in behavior modification, we are not only referring to physical safety or environmental management. We are also referring to...

Follow the Trigger Most traditional dog training focuses on avoiding triggers, managing distance, or distracting the dog before a reaction happens. While those strategies can be useful in the short term, they do not address the underlying learning process that is driving the behavior. If we want real change, we have to understand something more fundamental: behavior is shaped through activation, not avoidance. Why Triggers Matter A trigger is not the problem, a trigger is information. It is the moment when the nervous system shifts, and an old emotional memory becomes active. That activation is what creates behavior. Without activation,...

CalmCalmness gives you the mental steadiness to truly see your dog. If you’re not calm, you can’t learn—and good training is as much about learning your dog as it is teaching anything. A calm state creates space for observation, better timing, and clearer decisions. Just as importantly, your calm nervous system signals safety to your dog. NeutralNeutrality means being unattached to outcomes. When you’re not emotionally hooked on what should happen, you can stay present with what is happening. This allows you to observe without judgment and respond instead of react. Ask questions: What is my dog communicating? What does...

Photo by Reed Shepherd on Unsplash Commands vs. Labels It’s a very common—and very human—habit: we start giving our dog a “command” before the dog has any idea what the word means. Some dogs may catch on quickly, but many don’t. What often happens instead is this: the owner points at the dog (why do we do that?) and repeats “SIT!” over and over while the dog looks confused. The more a word is repeated in a moment of confusion, the less meaning it carries. To the dog, it becomes noise—like the teacher in a Peanuts cartoon: “wah, wah, wah…” Instead, we want...